What you're really asking for is civility. I've had five decades of this pesky thing called "life" beat it out of me. Thus to me, civility is the tool of the oppressor, used by snake oil peddlers and the marks suckered by them to perpetuate a status quo of abuse. All it does is perpetuate the bunko.
It doesn't help I'm a New Englander. We are brutally frank, openly sarcastic about everything, and insult each-other face to face as we're giving you the shirt off our back.
But more so when it comes to the framework numbnuttery and so many other things I've watched screw client after client, site owner after site owner, resulting in failing businesses and being dragged through the courts, I'm like the pit bull who's owner has kicked them one too many times. Everyone standing around going "why did it attack?!?" -- gee, let me think...
Thus why people ask me "why are you so upset" or 'why are you so angry" all I can freaking think is "why in the bloody hell aren't you? What the hell is your huffing damage that this isn't making YOU froth at the mouth?" Because it IS that level of sleazy dirtbag scam artist bullshit we're talking about here!
But that's the new world order, let the scumbags prey on people who don't know any better, and use soft language and "civility" as excuses to silence critics.